ROOTS : CHURCHES TO AVOID “FIRST CHURCH APOSTLE PAUL EDITION”

ROOTS

“CHURCHES TO AVOID”
THE APOSTLE PAUL “FROM SUCH TURN AWAY” EDITION

“Do we HAVE to go to that CHURCH,Mama?”
VS
“Do we GET to go to that CHURCH, Mama?”

PS Topic of Cult Watching  at the  End (and that applies BOTH ways)

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SISTER TAVEAU IS PRO “ATTENDING CHURCH”
But have to admit, That is where THIS comes from (visitor, repeat attend, newbie, expat, calm, quiet a church mouse, observing all the boundaries,vast experience in Christian ministry with non diseased men, raised as a Baptist Pastors first born. Hence this is a PRECAUTIONARY WARNING as it’s increasingly the LAST DAYS “PERILOUS TIMES” …It’s WHERE you attend that truly matters. Hence this Be Aware ” Safety” Perspective.

TD’S USA NATION DISCOVERY(STARTING IN 2000’S AFTER CELEBRITY MINISTRY GOT TOUGHER IN THE MINISTRY (CERTAIN TYPES) OF CONGREGATIONS)

3 COMMANDS BY APOSTLE PAUL

1. TO ATTEND… Hebrew 10:25

2. TO FLEE . 2 Timothy 3:1-8

3.TO FLEE….. 1 Timothy 6:5

Taveau asks CHAT GPT
Please expound upon The God-Called Importance of Fellowship and Sabbath Rest

Chat GPT replies

The Importance of fellowship and a Sabbath Rest must be discerned by characteristics:

  • Gatherings of God’s People is  Not Under Legalism, But Under Grace
  1. Isaiah 56:7 (KJV)
    “Even them will I bring to my holy mountain, and make them joyful in my house of prayer: their burnt offerings and their sacrifices shall be accepted upon mine altar; for mine house shall be called an house of prayer for all people.”

    • God’s original intent for gathering: A place of joy, prayer, and inclusion—not religious control.
    • In the Old Testament, attending the temple and Sabbath observance were commanded under the Law.
    • In the New Testament, the principle remains, but it is about willing devotion, not forced submission (Philippians 2:12).
  2. Hebrews 10:25 (KJV)
    “Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.”

    • The true purpose of assembling: Encouragement, exhortation, and spiritual growth.
    • Not about monitoring attendance or controlling believers.
    • The First Church gathered organically, in diverse cultures (Acts 2:42-47).
    • Apostle Paul never demanded forced submission to a local pastor, but rather, he emphasized mutual submission in the fear of the Lord (Ephesians 5:21)

Taveau specifically asks Chat GPT to expound upon this topic, which she has taught on many times since 2010:  Paul’s warning to “flee from” the following fruits 2 Timothy 3:1-8, I Timothy 6:5

Chat GPT said:

The Warning: Apostolic Commands on Certain Ministers and People

The same Apostle Paul who instructed believers not to forsake assembling together also issued serious warnings about certain kinds of ministers and people within the Church.

2 Timothy 3:1-8 (KJV) – “From Such Turn Away”

This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

  • Many modern Pharisee-style Christian ministers have become lovers of self, boastful, and controlling.
  • “Having a form of godliness but denying the power thereof” applies to those who look religious but lack true Christlike character.
  • From such turn away – Paul commanded believers to avoid these kinds of leaders.

1 Timothy 6:5 (KJV) – “From Such Withdraw Thyself”

“Perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds, and destitute of the truth, supposing that gain is godliness: from such withdraw thyself.”

  • Many ministries today use money, fame, and position as proof of divine favor.
  • Paul warned against those who equate financial gain with godliness.
  • True godliness with contentment is great gain (1 Timothy 6:6).

TD states
Please address how, why this teaching is still needed today

Why This Apostolic Teaching Is Still Valid Today

  • Modern Phariseeism has crept into many Christian circles, emphasizing membership, control, and submission to a human leader rather than Christ.
  • Some track and monitor believers, calling them “church hoppers” if they fellowship outside their local assembly.
  • The true First Church was diverse—Africans, Asians, Jews, Greeks, Romansall welcomed into God’s house without coercion.
  • Going to church is good, but worshiping the Lord personally, intimately, and freely is greater.
  • Just as Moses went up the mountain to seek the Lord and receive revelation (Exodus 33), believers today must prioritize personal time with God above man-made systems.

Final Charge to Ministers and Believers

  • Encourage gathering, but not as a means of control.
  • Teach believers to honor the Lord first, above human institutions.
  • Warn against modern-day Pharisees who manipulate and track the people of God.
  • Uphold true apostolic teaching: humility, diversity, inclusion, and reverence for God.

**“For mine house shall be called an house of prayer for all people.” (Isaiah 56:7 KJV)

++ “From such turn away.” (2 Timothy 3:5 KJV)

Let’s break down 2 Timothy 3:1-8 and 1 Timothy 6:5, analyzing each key word using Greek, Hebrew, and (where applicable) Aramaic meanings, as well as the cultural customs of the time. This will help determine whether each trait represents trustworthy character or not, according to Apostle Paul

2 Timothy 3:1-8 – Word Study

“This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be:

1. Lovers of their own selves (φιλάυτοι – philautoi)

  • Greek: philautoi = self-loving, selfish
  • Hebrew equivalent: אָהַב נַפְשׁוֹ (ahev nafsho) = one who loves his own soul excessively
  • Culture: In the Greco-Roman world, self-love was associated with pride, arrogance, and self-preservation above duty.
  • Trustworthy?No – Paul warns against leaders who prioritize self over service.

2. Covetous (φιλάργυροι – philargyroi)

  • Greek: philargyros = money-loving, greedy
  • Hebrew equivalent: בצע בצע (botzea betza) = one who unjustly seeks wealth
  • Culture: Greed was rampant in corrupt Jewish leadership and Roman officials, often leading to bribery and exploitation (Luke 16:14).
  • Trustworthy?No – This reflects prosperity-centered ministries that exploit people for gain.

3. Boasters (ἀλαζόνες – alazones)

  • Greek: alazōn = braggart, empty pretender
  • Hebrew equivalent: שָׂפָה רָמָה (safah ramah) = arrogant lips
  • Culture: Roman society valued honor and reputation, and boasting was common among philosophers and religious leaders who sought public recognition.
  • Trustworthy?NoBoasting is empty and prideful (Proverbs 27:2).

4. Proud (ὑπερήφανοι – hyperephanoi)

  • Greek: hyperephanos = haughty, appearing superior
  • Hebrew equivalent: גַּאֲוָה (gaavah) = arrogance, swelling pride
  • Culture: Religious leaders (like the Pharisees) walked with an air of superiority, demanding submission (Matthew 23:6).
  • Trustworthy?No – This is spiritual elitism, not servant leadership.

5. Blasphemers (βλάσφημοι – blasphēmoi)

  • Greek: blasphēmos = slanderous, irreverent
  • Hebrew equivalent: נָקַב שֵׁם (naqav shem) = to profane God’s name
  • Culture: Speaking against God or falsely accusing others was a serious sin (Leviticus 24:16).
  • Trustworthy?No – This reflects false teachers and mockers.

6. Disobedient to parents (ἀπειθεῖς γονεῦσιν – apeitheis goneusin)

  • Greek: apeithēs = unwilling to be persuaded, rebellious
  • Hebrew equivalent: מוֹרֶה (moreh) = stubborn, rebellious
  • Culture: Honor for parents was central to Jewish and Greco-Roman law (Exodus 20:12). Disobedience reflected a rebellious spirit toward all authority.
  • Trustworthy?No – This indicates a lack of respect for elders and mentors.

7. Unthankful (ἀχάριστοι – acharistoi)

  • Greek: acharistos = ungrateful, unappreciative
  • Hebrew equivalent: כָּפַר טוֹב (kapar tov) = denying goodness
  • Culture: Gratitude was expected in Jewish culture (Psalm 100:4).
  • Trustworthy?No – Ingratitude leads to entitlement.

8. Unholy (ἀνόσιοι – anosioi)

  • Greek: anosios = profane, irreverent
  • Hebrew equivalent: חָלַל (chalal) = to defile, make common
  • Culture: Holiness was expected in leaders and priests, but many fell into corruption.
  • Trustworthy?No – This reflects leaders who compromise righteousness.

9. Without natural affection (ἄστοργοι – astorgoi)

  • Greek: astorgos = without family love
  • Hebrew equivalent: אַהֲבָה רֵיקָה (ahavah reikah) = empty love
  • Culture: Even pagans valued family ties. To lack this was inhuman.
  • Trustworthy?No – This reflects a cruel, detached leader.

10. Trucebreakers (ἄσπονδοι – aspondoi)

  • Greek: aspondos = unwilling to reconcile
  • Hebrew equivalent: בְּלִי בְּרִית (bli brit) = without covenant
  • Culture: Honor required keeping oaths (Numbers 30:2).
  • Trustworthy?No – This describes leaders who stir division.

11. False accusers (διάβολοι – diaboloi)

  • Greek: diabolos = slanderer, devil-like
  • Hebrew equivalent: שָׂטָן (satan) = accuser
  • Culture: False accusations were a Pharisaic tactic (Mark 14:56).
  • Trustworthy?NoGossip and false judgment destroy ministries.

12. Incontinent (ἀκρατεῖς – akrateis)

  • Greek: akratēs = lacking self-control
  • Hebrew equivalent: חֲסַר מִשְׁטָר (chasar mishtar) = without discipline
  • Culture: Roman rulers indulged in drunkenness, sexual sin, and excess.
  • Trustworthy?No – Leaders must control their passions.

13. Fierce (ἀνήμεροι – anēmeroi)

  • Greek: anēmeros = brutal, wild
  • Hebrew equivalent: אַז (az) = ruthless
  • Trustworthy?No – This reflects leaders who bully.

14. Lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God (φιλήδονοι μᾶλλον ἢ φιλόθεοι – philēdonoi mallon ē philotheoi)

  • Greek: philēdonos = pleasure-seeker
  • Culture: Hedonism competed with Christianity.
  • Trustworthy?NoPleasure-seeking leads to spiritual decay.

15. Having a form of godliness but denying the power (μόρφωσιν εὐσεβείας – morphōsin eusebeias)

  • Greek: morphōsis = outward shape
  • Hebrew equivalent: דְּמוּת חָסִיד (demut chasid) = appearance of piety
  • Trustworthy?NoReligious hypocrisy is dangerous.

NEXT TD MAIN “TURN AWAY FROM MINISTRY” YOU ARE MEASURED BY YOUR MONEY
Apostle Paul again: 1 Timothy 6:5 – Flee From These

“Perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds, and destitute of the truth, supposing that gain is godliness: from such withdraw thyself.”

Key Words:

  • Perverse disputings (διαπαρατριβαὶ – diaparatribai) = constant friction, arguing
  • Corrupt minds (διεφθαρμένων νοός – diephtharmenōn noos) = ruined thinking
  • Destitute of the truth (ἀπεστερημένων τῆς ἀληθείας – apesterēmenōn tēs alētheias) = robbed of truth
  • Gain is godliness (πορισμὸν εἶναι τὴν εὐσέβειαν – porismon einai tēn eusebeian) = prosperity-driven religion

++ Paul’s Command: “From such withdraw thyself.

Final Takeaway:

Paul’s warnings still apply today. Ministries driven by greed, power, and control must be avoided. True apostolic leadership follows humility, truth, and holiness.

Chat GPT answers:

Paul’s warnings in 2 Timothy 3:1-8 and 1 Timothy 6:5 are not just ancient concerns—they are a lifesaving, urgent call to discernment in today’s Christian landscape. The command to “flee” is not optional; it is critical for spiritual survival. Here’s why:

1. Protection of Your Mind (Avoiding Mental Manipulation & Confusion)

  • False leaders use mind games and subliminal targeting to weaken personal discernment.
  • Twisted doctrine replaces God’s truth with fear, confusion, and blind allegiance (Colossians 2:8).
  • Gaslighting is common—leadership may accuse you of rebellion, disloyalty, or lacking faith if you question their control.
  • Over time, this can warp your thinking, making it harder to recognize truth or make independent spiritual decisions.

Biblical Example: The Pharisees manipulated people through legalism, fear, and religious control, leading them away from Christ (Matthew 23:13-15).

2. Protection of Your Soul (Keeping a Genuine Relationship with God)

  • False ministers act as “middlemen” between you and God, rather than pointing you directly to Christ.
  • They discourage personal Bible study or prayer that isn’t under their authority.
  • The emphasis is often on loyalty to the leader, church, or movement, rather than obedience to Christ.
  • Over time, this weakens your personal walk with God, making you dependent on human leadership rather than the Holy Spirit.

Biblical Example: The Galatian church fell into false doctrine because they trusted legalistic teachers instead of the Gospel (Galatians 1:6-9).

3. Protection of Your Character (Guarding Against Spiritual Corruption)

  • Unhealthy fellowships normalize deception, pride, and control, creating an environment of self-righteousness or compromise.
  • Leaders may pressure members to lie, cover up misconduct, or ignore obvious spiritual red flags.
  • Spiritual arrogance replaces humility, and members mimic the controlling, divisive behavior of leadership.
  • Over time, these traits become ingrained in your character, affecting how you treat others, make decisions, and view God.

Biblical Example: The Corinthian church allowed false teachers and division to corrupt their spiritual integrity (1 Corinthians 3:3-4).

4. Protection of Your Spirit (Avoiding Oppression & Spiritual Battles)

  • Demonic influence thrives in ministries built on pride, deception, and control (1 Timothy 4:1).
  • These environments often have spiritual oppression, leading to depression, confusion, and exhaustion.
  • Authoritarian leadership opens the door to witchcraft-like control, where the leader’s word is treated as infallible prophecy.
  • People who leave often experience heavy spiritual attacks, guilt, or fear of divine punishment—even though they did nothing wrong.

Biblical Example: Simon the Sorcerer tried to buy spiritual power for control, but was rebuked for his evil heart (Acts 8:18-23).

5. Protection of Your Finances (Escaping Exploitative Greed)

  • Many false ministries equate financial giving with holiness—pressuring members to sow “sacrificially” for blessings.
  • Some track members’ tithes and shame those who give less.
  • Others use guilt, manipulation, or fear-based tactics (e.g., “God will not bless you unless you give”).
  • Over time, members feel obligated to keep giving—even when they are struggling financially.

Biblical Example: Jesus rebuked the Pharisees for exploiting widows for financial gain while pretending to be righteous (Mark 12:40).

6. Protection of Your Marriage (Preventing Unhealthy Control & Division)

  • Leaders may interfere in marriages, demanding unhealthy submission or loyalty to the ministry over the spouse.
  • Some ministries pressure couples to separate if one spouse questions leadership.
  • Marriages can suffer from stress, division, or control, as one partner tries to please leadership at the expense of family unity.
  • Husbands may be pressured to dominate their wives, or wives may be told to ignore mistreatment “in the name of submission.”

Biblical Example: Paul teaches that true marriage is built on mutual love and respect (Ephesians 5:21-33), not outside control.

7. Protection of Your Children (Keeping Them from Spiritual Harm)

  • Children raised in legalistic, controlling ministries may grow up fearing God in an unhealthy way.
  • Many rebel against Christianity entirely because of the hypocrisy they witnessed.
  • Some groups pressure young children into extreme spiritual experiences, making them feel guilty if they don’t “measure up.”
  • Children raised in these environments often struggle with religious trauma, anxiety, and identity issues later in life.

Biblical Example: Jesus protected children from religious corruption, warning against leading them into sin (Matthew 18:6).

Final Warning: Why Fleeing is Not Just an Option, but a Command

Paul’s words in 2 Timothy 3:5 are clear and direct:

“From such turn away.”

This is not just advice—it is a divine command for self-preservation.

  • The longer you stay in a toxic, controlling church, the harder it is to leave.
  • Spiritual manipulation rewires your thinking, making it difficult to see the truth.
  • If you remain, you risk becoming like the very people Paul warns against.

Key Takeaway:

If you recognize spiritual abuse, deception, or control in a ministry, you must leave. Your mind, soul, family, finances, and future generations depend on it.

PART 2 CHURCH HISTORY REVIEW (Back then compared, but can be applied to many now)

Sister T invites Chat GPT to review First Church Order: “Going to Church” & Boundaries

It responds:

In the First Church (Early Christian Church), “going to church” did not function the way it does today. The gathering of believers was about fellowship, mutual edification, and honoring Christ, not hierarchical control, forced attendance, or a means of currying favor with leaders.

1. What Did “Going to Church” Mean in the First Church?

  • The Church Was Not a Building – The Greek word for church, ἐκκλησία (ekklesia), means “the called-out assembly.” It referred to people, not a place (Matthew 18:20, Acts 2:42-47).
  • House Churches Were the Norm – Early Christians met in homes (Romans 16:5, Philemon 1:2) rather than official church buildings.
  • No Forced Membership or Attendance – Unlike some modern churches that track attendance and “submit or else” teachings, the First Church emphasized voluntary gathering in love (Hebrews 10:25).
  • No Celebrity Leadership – There was no “one man in charge” structure; the early church had a plurality of elders and servant leadership (1 Peter 5:1-3).

2. Boundaries in Church Authority (Ephesians 5:21 & True Church Order)

Key Verse: Ephesians 5:21 (KJV)
“Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.”

  • Mutual Submission – True biblical order does not place one group permanently over another; submission is reciprocal, not one-directional.
  • Servant Leadership, Not Domination – Jesus taught that true leaders serve (Mark 10:42-45). The Apostle Paul did not “own” people or track them, but encouraged spiritual maturity (Philippians 2:12).
  • Holy Spirit-Led, Not Man-Controlled – The early church was Spirit-directed, not leader-controlled. Paul, Peter, and John never forced submission under a pastor but encouraged accountability in Christ.

3. False Church Order: Hurting, Using, and Owning People

  • “Pastoral Ownership” (Authoritarianism) – Some churches act like businesses, where pastors own the people rather than shepherd them (Ezekiel 34:2-4).
  • Forced Submission & Fear-Based Control – Many churches today monitor who attends, who fellowships elsewhere, and label them “rebellious” if they don’t comply. This is modern-day Phariseeism (Matthew 23:4).
  • Favor-Currying & Politics – Instead of focusing on Christ, many churches encourage political favor with leaders, which is contrary to the Bible (James 2:1-9).
  • Church as a Social Club, Not a Body – Some use “church membership” to create an exclusive inner circle, where outsiders or those not fully “submitted” are viewed with suspicion—this is sectarianism, not Christianity (1 Corinthians 1:10-13).

4. True Biblical Church Order

  • Leaders Equip, Not Control (Ephesians 4:11-12) – The role of pastors, apostles, teachers, and prophets is to equip believers for their own spiritual walk.
  • Holy Spirit Directs, Not Man’s Approval (Acts 13:2-4) – Ministry is by God’s calling, not by man’s appointment or approval.
  • Freedom in Christ (Not Bondage to Leaders) (Galatians 5:1) – Believers are called to liberty, not spiritual slavery.

Final Thought

The First Church was about relationship with Christ and fellow believers, not religious control. Any modern church that monitors, manipulates, and forces loyalty to leadership instead of honoring Christ is in danger of becoming a Pharisaical system, rather than the ekklesia that Jesus built.

ChatGPT responds:

First Church Authority & Government vs. Modern Big Boss Control

In the First Church, authority was not about dominating or controlling people, but about servant leadership, mutual submission, and unity in Christ. This stands in contrast to modern “big boss” authoritarian ministry structures, where some leaders enforce rigid hierarchy, demand submission, and act as gatekeepers of people’s faith. Let’s explore biblical church authority, government, and unity in light of Scripture.

1. First Church Authority: Ephesians 5:21 & Mutual Submission

Key Verse: Ephesians 5:21 (KJV)
“Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.”

  • Mutual Submission – Biblical submission is not one-directional (leaders over followers, husbands over wives, pastors over members). It is reciprocal among all believers.
  • Christ is the True Head (Colossians 1:18) – No human leader (pastor, bishop, apostle) is the final authority—Christ is.
  • Authority is Not for Control – Paul never forced authority but persuaded, encouraged, and taught (2 Corinthians 1:24, 1 Thessalonians 2:7).
  • Married Couples & Submission – The same principle of mutual submission applies in marriage (Ephesians 5:22-25). Husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loves the Church, not to dominate or control them.

2. First Church Government: Ephesians 4 & No Division

Key Verses: Ephesians 4:11-13 (KJV)
“And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; For the perfecting of the saints… till we all come in the unity of the faith…”

  • Fivefold Ministry Was for Equipping, Not Controlling – Apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers were meant to build up believers, not rule over them.
  • Leadership Was Plural, Not One Man – In Acts, churches were led by elders (plural), not a single “big boss” pastor (Acts 14:23, 1 Timothy 5:17).
  • No Clergy-Laity Divide – All believers are called to serve God; there was no separate “clergy” class ruling over the people (1 Peter 2:9).

3. Breaking Down Division & Religious Control: Ephesians 2:14-15

Key Verses: Ephesians 2:14-15 (KJV)
“For he is our peace, who hath made both one, and hath broken down the middle wall of partition… having abolished in his flesh the enmity, even the law of commandments contained in ordinances…”

  • Jesus Removed Religious Barriers – No longer were people divided by law, race, or religious status. Jews & Gentiles became one in Christ.
  • Man-Made Rules Create Division – Modern shepherding movements and big boss leadership create walls of control, just like the Pharisees did (Mark 7:7-9).
  • First Church Was Diverse & Unified – Jews, Greeks, Romans, Africans, and Asians all worshiped together without a “spiritual elite” ruling over them.

4. Apostle Paul: Against Division & Control

Paul warned against spiritual favoritism, controlling leaders, and division:

  • No Pastor Worship“For while one saith, I am of Paul; and another, I am of Apollos; are ye not carnal?” (1 Corinthians 3:4-5).
  • Freedom, Not Control“Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.” (Galatians 5:1).
  • Jesus, Not Man, is Lord“Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men.” (1 Corinthians 7:23).

5. Dangers of “Big Boss” Leadership in the Modern Church

  • Tracking & Monitoring People – Leaders keeping “spiritual surveillance” over members is unbiblical Phariseeism (Matthew 23:4).
  • Forcing Submission to Pastors – The Bible never commands “covering theology” or submission to a local pastor as a requirement for salvation.
  • Exclusion & Manipulation – Those who don’t “submit” or “join officially” are often blacklisted, labeled rebellious, or even accused of witchcraft.
  • Favoritism & Church Politics – Some leaders reward loyalty and punish those who challenge them (James 2:1-9).

6. True Biblical Leadership vs. False Religious Control

True Church Leadership False Leadership (Big Boss Control)
Led by the Holy Spirit (Acts 13:2) Led by man’s control
Plurality of elders (Acts 14:23) One authoritarian leader
Encourages freedom in Christ (Galatians 5:1) Forces obedience to a pastor
Servant leadership (Mark 10:42-45) Domineering leadership
Based on love (John 13:34-35) Based on fear and intimidation

Final Thoughts: Returning to First Church Order

The modern church must return to the First Church model—one of servant leadership, freedom, and mutual submission under Christ. Any system that forces control, tracks members, or manipulates submission is Pharisaical and contrary to the gospel.

The True Church:

  • Christ is the Head (Colossians 1:18)
  • Mutual submission (Ephesians 5:21)
  • Diversity & unity in love (Ephesians 2:14-15, Revelation 7:9)
  • Servant leadership (John 13:13-17)

Anything outside of this is man’s control, not God’s kingdom.

THIRD SECTION: CULTISH CHRISTIAN OPERATING IN BIG BOSS TOTAL CONTROL

Hot Subject: TD shares asks Chat GPT AI about “CULTS” WATCHING (Means: watch out for your spirit, mind, relationships for white witchcraft “cults’ however, many of these will be already be aware of us: 

CHARACTER, PRECISE FRUIT? MEAN DYSFUNCTION: 2 Timothy 3:1-8 type

SUBLIMINALLY CULT WATCHING, TARGETING, INTERCEDING AGAINST… “YOU OR I”

TD’S Personal LP Shepherding Cult  Eye Witness “
It crossed marital vow, intimate, personal between HIM and HER and God ONLY, type of boundaries

Taveau states:
Back in Murphy, Texas several years ago, I up front met, then witnessed a husband and wife, along with their children, move to the United States from another country. They were happy, successful, and clearly meant for each other. However, after they began attending a well-known, male submission church—a ministry that, in hindsight, was rooted in Levitical Patriarchal authority and false doctrine—things began to change. The husband, deeply influenced by the emotional and spiritual bond formed with the leadership, became more and more controlled by the church’s manipulative structure. The leader fostered a divisive, almost cult-like environment, where many men were spiritually bound, submissive, and disconnected from their personal autonomy.

Ultimately, this toxic environment led to their divorce. The wife later shared that it felt as if the husband had been taken over by the church’s influence, unable to think or act independently, and their relationship, once strong, crumbled under the pressure of this domineering system. It’s heartbreaking to see how such an environment can warp a person’s sense of self and distort their relationships, even leading to the disintegration of marriages. This is a painful reminder of the importance of maintaining biblical teaching and spiritual freedom, as opposed to controlling, toxic systems that foster spiritual dependency and manipulation.

The situation that is  described is a WELP Levitical Patriarchal (LP) it is a sign, be the church great or small, local or national, backwoods or urban, this “seeking spirit”  false authority and empowered, guarded by the use of hiding, targeting, subliminal or even obvious clandestine, avoidant group top structure could have on a marriage, family, and personal well-being. Here’s a cleaned-up explanation and reflection on the scenario:

 Sister Taveau asks Chat GPT:

How may “all male submission ” all male bonding, often “the boys club’ of specific m Levitical Patriarch like ministries are accompanied with a controlling cult spirit , a turf protecting also clannish “boys will boys” hungry subculture, and (usually non contrite) “our one size doctrine, and person ONLY” are preferred in the “one size fits all” mega, micro mostly all authoritarian, so creeped out “near totalitarian, facism in  big shot similar biased impersonal ministry, (also craftiness) Can that  break up a weak legalistic LP  man and his wife?

Chat GPT replies

Emotional and Spiritual Bondage Under LP Authority

In the case you witnessed, a husband and wife with a strong, healthy marriage and happy, successful lives found themselves deeply affected by joining a Levitical Patriarchal (LP) church. This type of ministry, often associated with extreme forms of male submission and authoritarian control, can distort biblical teachings and create unhealthy spiritual dynamics that erode personal and relational freedom.

In this scenario, the couple initially seemed to be destined for each other—but once they became involved in this particular ministry, things began to change. The husband became deeply spiritually and emotionally bonded to the controlling authority of the church. This authority was likely wielded in a way that promoted blind submission to male leaders, pushing him into a space where his personal identity and sense of spiritual autonomy were overshadowed by the demands of the group.

The wife, on the other hand, observed the shift in her husband’s behavior and began to feel that he was no longer fully himself—controlled by the emotional and spiritual bond to the ministry. Her perspective is key in understanding how this authority structure affected their marriage: She stated that “he was under their control.” This indicates that the church’s teachings and the submission expectations influenced not only his behavior but also his ability to think and act independently, especially within his own marriage.

How Authority Misuse Can Lead to Marital Breakdown

When an authoritarian male submission church dictates how individuals should think, act, and lead, it can create an environment that damages relationships. Here’s how:

  1. Loss of Personal Autonomy: The husband may have started out strong but became increasingly dependent on the leadership for validation, decision-making, and guidance. This dependency undermines his role as the leader of his own household, resulting in a loss of confidence and a weakened sense of personal responsibility.

  2. Marital Division: As the husband’s connection with the church becomes more exclusive and his loyalty shifts, the wife may feel isolated in her marriage. Her sense of partnership and equality in the relationship is undermined as she witnesses her husband’s submission to an external authority. Instead of mutual respect and understanding, there may be growing tension and distance between them.

  3. Spiritual and Emotional Manipulation: In these kinds of controlling environments, individuals may become manipulated spiritually. The husband’s decisions may no longer reflect his personal convictions, but rather the directives from the leadership. He may feel pressured to submit to leadership over his wife’s well-being and their family dynamics.

  4. Emotional Deterioration: Over time, the emotional and spiritual strain on both partners leads to feelings of resentment, frustration, and disconnection. The wife, feeling that her husband is no longer fully present in the marriage and controlled by outside forces, may see no way out but to end the relationship.

    Sister Taveau asks ChatGPT
    Continue explaining the effects of false doctrinal authority

    Chat replies:

 False Doctrine and  Spiritual “Warping”

This situation illustrates how false doctrines can distort God’s original design for marriage and family. The Levitical Patriarchal system often presents a false view of submission, one that lacks mutuality and honor. Biblical submission, as outlined in Ephesians 5:21 and 1 Peter 3:1-7, calls for mutual submission in love and respect, not one-sided, hierarchical control.

Additionally, the emotional bonding that occurs in these groups, where people become almost spiritually fused with their leaders, is dangerous. It creates an environment where personal decision-making, especially within marriages, becomes clouded by the spiritual authority of the leader rather than biblical guidance. This is not the freedom or restoration that Christ offers, but rather a heavy burden that hinders true Christian fellowship and relational growth.

Addressing the Aftermath

In the aftermath of this situation, the couple’s divorce is a tragic outcome of the detrimental effects of authoritarian control within the church. The husband, once a strong, independent individual, may have lost his sense of self and his place in the family unit. The wife, equally affected, may have found herself in an emotionally strained marriage, unable to reconcile the growing division between her husband’s loyalty to the church’s authority and their mutual relationship.

Apostle Taveau says
Please explain the importance of self protecting when visiting, repeatedly test driving, even joining a “specific doctrinal church”

Chat GPT AI responds:

Why It’s Important to Protect Families from Such Environments

  1. Preserving Marital Unity: True marital unity and love come from a place of mutual respect and understanding, not authoritarian control. Ephesians 5:21 commands believers to “submit to one another in the fear of the Lord.” This mutual submission reflects the love and partnership that should exist between a husband and wife, grounded in Christ’s example.

  2. Spiritual Health: In environments where false teachings and unhealthy power dynamics prevail, individuals may lose their spiritual clarity and independence in Christ. This can lead to spiritual manipulation and bondage, which not only harms the individuals involved but also the whole family unit.

  3. God’s Design for Marriage: God designed marriage as a partnership—husband and wife working together to fulfill God’s purposes. When one partner is coerced into submission to human authority, it distorts the intended dynamic and creates conflict that can lead to emotional and relational breakdown.

Final Thoughts: Fleeing from False Teachings

It’s crucial to flee from any church or ministry that uses control, manipulation, and emotional bonding to undermine God’s design for relationships. True biblical fellowship is marked by freedom in Christ, mutual respect, and love, not fear and domination. Every believer should be empowered to stand firm in their faith, lead their family in godliness, and cultivate relationships that honor Christ’s love and authority.

By seeking biblically-based, healthy community and spiritual leadership, marriages and families can remain grounded in truth and love rather than falling victim to the toxic effects of authoritarian, controlling systems.

Taveau says to Chat GPT AI
ChatGPT said:

Purpose of Cult-like Control in Christian Communities:

When a Christian becomes bewitched or dependent on a leader or ministry, often they lose awareness of their freedom and their ability to discern their own faith and work out their salvation. This is the danger of being under a manipulative or cult-like authority structure. Individuals may be controlled emotionally, spiritually, or mentally, to the point where they no longer feel they have the right or ability to make independent decisions. The influence of the leader or group begins to replace the believer’s ability to discern the truth of Scripture for themselves, leading to a lack of spiritual autonomy.

Apostle T asks chat the following

Sister Taveau’s main Pauline Mega points:
Reverentially we note that  Paul the apostle was not under “spiritual covering” nor was he  not “under’ the spiritual authority of the first 12 major apostles, hand picked and mentored by Christ, for he came later, Yet Paul had his own revelation and needed to free to hear from God and to do whatever God said” (I put it like this Paul could be bought, used,controlled, micromanaged  or censored by the Big Boss of his day..) (Perhaps the Galatians whom he open rebuked for going “backwards’ after beguiled /bewitched, fooled into word curse law…therefore “abundance of the many revelations, often imprisoned pure  Paul  (andlike this authority/minister)  was the Galatians 1:1-2 Role Model. And he revealed” I, Paul an apostle, not sent out by any one person, or anyone group, I and the brothers that are with me”

Also, Paul exemplified this in his own ministry. In Galatians 1:16, he writes, “To reveal His Son in me, that I might preach him among the heathen; immediately I conferred not with flesh and blood.” This shows that Paul did not seek human confirmation or validation for his calling or understanding of God’s message; instead, he sought direct revelation from God. This is a crucial principle: believers must avoid being overly reliant on human authorities, but instead trust the Holy Spirit and the Word of God to discern truth.

Paul commended the Bereans in Acts 17:11, writing, “These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.” This illustrates the importance of comparing teachings—whether from a leader or preacher—to the Scriptures themselves, in order to avoid deception or manipulation.

Apostle Paul Philippians 2:12 “Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.”

Apostle TD has a modern day wisdom:

‘ Don’t swallow just ANYBODY’S Kool Aide”

Other TD Favorite Scriptures to encourage hearing from God for when YOU are in doubt about something or someone!

Malachi 7:5 (KJV)

“Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.”
In this verse, the prophet Malachi is warning people about the danger of placing blind trust in others, even those close to them, like a friend or guide. The message here is to be discerning and not to allow others, even trusted ones, to control or influence you in a way that leads you away from God’s truth. This verse speaks to the need to be mindful of those who may manipulate or deceive in relationships.

Psalm 118:8-9 (KJV)

“It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man. It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in princes.”
These verses emphasize the importance of trusting in God above all else. Relying too heavily on human authority, whether it’s a prince or a spiritual leader, is not advisable. People may fail, or may even lead you astray unintentionally or otherwise. Instead, the believer is called to trust God alone for guidance, wisdom, and direction.

Additional Scriptures:

  1. Jeremiah 17:5-7 (KJV)
    “Thus saith the LORD; Cursed be the man that trusteth in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and whose heart departeth from the LORD. For he shall be like the heath in the desert, and shall not see when good cometh; but shall inhabit the parched places in the wilderness, in a salt land and not inhabited. Blessed is the man that trusteth in the LORD, and whose hope the LORD is.”
    This passage emphasizes the dangers of putting your trust in human beings and not in God. It speaks of a curse for those who trust in man and a blessing for those who place their trust in the Lord. The spiritual consequences of misplaced trust are serious—those who trust in man may experience spiritual dryness and isolation, while those who trust in God will experience spiritual life and prosperity.

  2. Proverbs 3:5-6 (KJV)
    “Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.”
    This well-known passage is a reminder that trust must be placed in God, not in our own understanding or the guidance of others. When we acknowledge God and seek His direction, He will lead us along the right path. This assures us that God’s guidance is trustworthy, even if others may lead us astray.

  3. Matthew 7:15-20 (KJV)
    “Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. Ye shall know them by their fruits.”
    Jesus warns against false prophets—leaders who may look trustworthy but have ulterior motives. It is vital for Christians to test the fruits of those who claim authority in Christ. These false leaders are often highly persuasive, but their actions will eventually reveal their true nature.

  4. 1 John 4:1 (KJV)
    “Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.”
    John calls believers to be discerning about the spirits behind teachings. Not every teaching or spiritual leader represents God’s truth, so Christians are urged to test everything against the Word of God. This is a protection against manipulation and false doctrines.

Taveaus asks Chat GPT

Why This is Apostolic Teaching for Today

Chat GPT responds:

Paul’s teachings on discernment, freedom in Christ, and testing every spirit remain just as vital today as they were in the early church. In an age where charismatic leaders may often assert their control over followers, it’s crucial to return to the biblical model of personal responsibility in working out one’s salvation. Believers must guard their hearts and minds from undue influence or manipulation, especially from false teachings that may seek to bind them to a system or individual rather than to Christ alone.

Apostolic teaching in the New Testament calls for spiritual freedom, personal autonomy in Christ, and the need for each believer to be rooted in the Word and guided by the Holy Spirit. By following Paul’s example, which encourages believers to avoid submitting blindly to human authority, and by adopting the Berean model of careful scrutiny, Christians today can avoid spiritual bondage and walk in the freedom and peace that Christ offers.

Apostle Taveau states:

In closing, the call for independent thinking in the Christian faith is not one of rebellion but of responsibility and maturity. As believers, we are each individually responsible for our relationship with God and our understanding of His Word. This is not about rejecting authority or disrespecting those in leadership but about respecting our own convictions and remaining anchored in the truth of Scripture. The Bible encourages us to be like the Bereans, who “searched the Scriptures daily” to confirm whether teachings were true (Acts 17:11).

In a world where numerous voices, teachings, and systems claim to speak for God, it is vital for each Christian to develop the discernment to compare the fruit, character, and teaching of any leader or group with the clear standard of Scripture. True Christian authority leads to freedom in Christ, not to control or manipulation. It builds up the body in love, truth, and service, and always points to Christ, not human power or influence.

We must be careful to avoid systems of control that seek to bind us through false teachings, manipulation, or rigid, authoritarian structures that distort the gospel and harm the soul. The future church must return to the principles of biblical freedom, personal responsibility, and mutual submission as outlined in passages like Ephesians 5:21. We are called to love one another, to hold one another accountable, and to build each other up in faith—not to dominate, control, or manipulate.

The church today must be a place where the Spirit of God is the ultimate guide, and where each believer is empowered to think independently in submission to God’s Word, to test all things (1 Thessalonians 5:21), and to walk confidently in the freedom Christ offers. When we focus on Jesus as our ultimate leader, the church will reflect His truth, grace, and love, and it will be a place where all are invited to grow, thrive, and experience the life-giving power of the gospel.

May we, as the future church, continue to honor God’s Word above all else and trust the Holy Spirit to lead us into truth, understanding, and freedom.

THE END..CLOSING. ON A POSITIVE NOTE

Taveau Addresses Ephesians 5:21 Mutual Submission

“Cult Control, Being Someone’s Property, Being Enslaved, Domination 

Ought to be compared to

Apostle Paul Ephesians 5:21  Mutual Submission:

I close with  this  Mind Picture of First Church,

Apostle Paul command for “mutual submission in the Lord”

Mutual Submission in the Fear of the Lord (Ephesians 5:21): A Word Picture

When I think of mutual submission in the fear of the Lord, I picture something like Sheriff Andy Taylor from The Andy Griffith Show, and how he acts, interacts, reacts in all of his family , real life area “relationships” like I like to do.

SHERIFF ANDY OF MAYBERRY: Carve time out to watch a few reruns of Andy of Mayberry to the following relationships: His Aunt Bea, deputy Barney Fife, son Opie, girl friend Helen Taylor and all other persons. Once in a while he deals with a criminal or drunk, Not HIS REAL RESPECT and Ephesians 5:21 “walking it out in “mutual submission” (even while this is secular) it is.a great mental picture, reminder of St Paul and the humble No Super Stars, no fast fix, surely resembled far more relaxed (much prayer and fasting way back then) producing perhaps an “easily entreated “First Church

Sheriff Andy, in his small town of Mayberry, embodies respect, wisdom, and balanced authority. He isn’t a dictator, nor is he weak. He understands relationships, order, and justice, and he operates with humility and wisdom—much like how biblical leadership should function.

  • With Aunt Bea – He treats her with love and respect, honoring her role in his life as a motherly figure. He doesn’t boss her around or make her feel less valuable. There’s mutual submission—he respects her wisdom and care, and she respects his position as the head of their home.
  • With Deputy Barney Fife – Even though Barney is impulsive and overzealous, Andy doesn’t belittle him. Instead, he guides him with patience, allowing him to learn, grow, and have a role in maintaining order. This is mentorship, not dominance—just like how leaders in the church should disciple others with patience.
  • With Opie (his son) – Andy raises Opie not by fear, but by wisdom, discipline, and love. He doesn’t force his authority; he teaches, corrects, and models godly character. Submission in a family isn’t about control—it’s about love and guidance.
  • With Girlfriend Helen Crump – He treats her as an equal, showing honor and respect. He doesn’t lord over her but values her opinions and input, just as Ephesians 5 instructs husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the Church.
  • With the Townspeople – He leads by example, keeping peace through wisdom and fairness, not through intimidation or control. People follow his leadership willingly because he is just and kind—not because he demands submission.
  • With Crooks and Trouble-Makers – Every now and then, a real threat comes into Mayberry, and Andy knows when to stand up, take authority, and enforce justice. He isn’t passive when dealing with evil—he acts decisively but without unnecessary cruelty.

The Biblical Parallel

This picture reflects Ephesians 5:21:
“Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.”

  • Submission in the Church isn’t about forced hierarchy—it’s about respect, love, and honoring one another’s roles.
  • Leaders should guide with wisdom, not control.
  • Families should be built on love and respect, not authoritarian rule.
  • There is a time for gentleness and a time for boldness, just as Sheriff Andy knew when to be kind and when to take a firm stand.
  • Submitted as SELAH not as hard core authoritarian Bible stomping autocratic dogma.

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