THE MINISTRY AI AND I

PART 14 TROUBLING THE CHRISTIAN PATRIARCHY

ADAM AND EVE BEFORE THE PATRIARCHY #2

ANTI BIAS RELATIONAL AND POWER TERMS

Due to the length of this ministry series, I review

MY, THE use of Christian “MAN” Related Terms (Part 1 (my own bio) Part 2-3 go into it far more)

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“The Last Days Perilous Times Church Field” 

“from such turn away” commands  Paul  2 Timothy 3:6-8

No respect for the Mothers, Only for the ministry Boys will be Boys Significant Size Club

⁶ For of this sort are they(sneaky proud, predatory egos)(MEN) which creep into houses, and lead captive silly (weak willed WOMEN**)(**Notably: whose pastor, father, step parent, mother NEVER showed them  LOVE, any RESPECT nor BOTHERED to train them  value THEMSELF  and to NOT LOWER THEMSELVES..but rather they ought to follow the HIGH CALL OF THE REAL CHRIST..and  have mature SELF RESPECT) laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,⁷ Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.

⁸ Now as Jannes and Jambres withstood Moses, so do these also resist the truth: (CHRISTIAN?? )MEN of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith.

THUS SAITH THE LORD TO Christian Fathers, Pastors, Prophets, Other Offices; Sister Taveau D’Arcy, founder  Cross Body Unity Doctrine there by says

NO MORE MALE, FEMALE DOUBLE STANDARD IN THE BODY OF CHRIST (but this very deep, expected, Boys Clubs participated it. I declare it false and evil (like Eli before the Ichabod wipeout) And this must go BOTH WAYS to women as well. Yet this historic, passed down, favored and Elite mostly Patriarchal Systemic ..and each human person of any gender, must regarded as “HUMAN REGARDED AS  VALUED RESPECTED and should be GIVEN THE ABILITY TO TRULY TRUST” In addition, due to the heart conditional in all races, gender and Christians, this must be trained in both BOYS MEN, GIRLS, WOMEN now) 2023 started declaring all of this in my many articles.

FINE DEFINITIONS

* Man (Biblical/Healthy)

A human male, created in God’s image, designed to reflect God’s character through servant leadership, love, and humility.
Healthy when: Honors God, respects all people, serves others.
Unhealthy when: Dominates, controls, belittles others, or seeks power over people.

* Woman (Biblical/Healthy)

A human female, created in God’s image, designed to reflect God’s character through wisdom, strength, nurture, and leadership.
Healthy when: Secure in identity, supports others, leads with grace, serves in her gifts.
Unhealthy when: Uses manipulation, envy, or self-promotion to dominate others.

* Patriarch

(Taveau  view of the word Patriarch) ‘an anchor disposition, which is wanted, needed and valued,as a wise sound advisor, stable breadwinner, head of tribe, family,ministry, business. This person has no hidden agenda, no need to control, to dominate or micromanage and/or false religion, occult)

Historically: A male leader of a family, tribe, or people group (ex: Abraham, Isaac, Jacob).
Healthy when: Cares for and protects those under his covering with humility and self-sacrifice.
Unhealthy when: Rules with ego, harshness, and demands unquestioned control.

* The “Patriarchy”  ( a controlling spirit)

(T states “‘the “PATRIARCHY is a system, exclusive, cronies, cult like, a specific energy, has respecter of persons “in crowd, out crowd) It usually has a double standard for it’s ‘pet members’  and the rest of the people. Yes, it’s in the secular world, and business. however it has no place in Christian fellowship, mantle ministry, any Christian office  sr leadership)

A human-made system (in culture or religion) where men hold nearly all the power, and women are often limited or suppressed.
Healthy? Rarely. Often mixed with bias and tradition. Watch out for: Exclusion (and expressed oppression, withstanding) of women from leadership, silencing of voices, male privilege excused as “God’s order.”

* Matriarch

(also is healthy without false doctrine, control, domination, or cliques, cult occult spirit)

A female leader of a family or tribe (think of Sarah, Deborah, or Lydia).
Healthy when: She guides with wisdom, respect, and care for future generations.
Unhealthy when: She becomes overbearing, manipulative, or uses emotional power to control.

* Family Man (chain of command, not a power player to keep control)

*(mostly servant leader, who respects all persons, enjoys marriage from the Ephesians 5:21 “mutual submission” (like TV Sheriff Andy of Mayberry interacting with respect and joy : Aunt Bea, his deputy Barney Fife and son Opie) NOTE this is First Church offices, elders, lay from Apostle Paul

A man devoted to caring for his spouse, children, or household.
Healthy when: Protective, nurturing, emotionally available, works in partnership.
Unhealthy when: Treats family as property or status symbols, neglects emotional/spiritual needs.

* Levitical Patriarch (tough and elite)

(Sister Taveau’s views of LP: false religion, need to control, micromanage, enslave, use, occult read, worship hierarchy, caste systems, elite, Men Only, Women less than, enjoys emotional drama, toying mind games, hiding and watching,  (“little females’ are our waitress,our seductive wanton Jezebel “our property” the concubine) uses cover subliminal, undermining, clandestine hiding, undue posturing avoidance also to spy upon. It is mean biased, ministry more like I Samuel Eli and sons, but could be well intentioned, just ignorant, poorly mentored, and/or. usually a dysfunctional and/or LP family.

A modern church man who copies Old Testament priestly-style authority over others (especially over women, children, or less “important” men).
Warning signs:

• Hyper-legalistic.
• Uses rules to dominate.
• Demands submission without mutual respect.
• Views women as “helpers” but never equals.
• Gatekeeps ministry roles.
• *Levitical Patriarchy

(the “submission” governing all powerful Queen Jezebel  all out Movement) (Apostle Taveau has repeated noted the wonderfully gifted yet false governing too controlling , strict, biased false authority: Doctrines in NAR, apostles in the gates of the city, the unfriendly turf guarding big and little cults, pastors who call out church hoppers, harlot watchers and overseer fine tune big controllers (you must get their permission to do anything) Modern form of Shepherding movement, the occult version: Salem witch trials and now mega celebrity. “Ministry Boys Club”

A modern teaching blending Old Testament male priesthood models into rigid, authoritarian family and church structures.
Warning signs:

• Gender roles are enforced like law.
• Men hold exclusive authority.
• Women are taught to obey silently.
• Sons are elevated above daughters.
• Can lead to isolation, spiritual abuse, and generational control.

* Men’s Group at the Ministry

Healthy when:

• Focused on growth, accountability, and encouragement.
• Creates safe space for honest discussion and prayer.

Unhealthy when:

• Turns into a secret power club.
• Becomes competitive, hierarchical, or dismissive of women.
• Promotes male dominance theology.

* Boy’s Club at the Ministry

An exclusive inner circle of men who favor each other with opportunities, leadership, or influence while subtly or openly excluding women and non-favored men.
Red flags:

• Inside jokes that mock others.
• Only friends promote each other.
• Criticism of women leaders.
• Reluctance to collaborate across gender.

* The Patriarchy (vs. Men)

Men = individual humans created in God’s image.
The Patriarchy = a human-made, systemic power structure that favors male dominance, often excused through culture or misused scripture.

You can honor men without honoring patriarchy.
You can dismantle patriarchy while still loving and respecting men.

* Good Ole Boy Network (most tragic systems case Eli and Big Boss Sons,  1 Samuel 1-3 is Levitical Patriarchy at its WORST)

A system (inside or outside church) where men use informal relationships to control who gets power, resources, and leadership roles.
Unhealthy signs:

• Lack of accountability.
• Jobs or titles given based on friendship, not calling or skill.
• Women and outsiders left out or mocked.

* Girls in the World (and Church)

Cultural: Women who use appearance, charm, or group power to gain influence.
In church: May look like cliques, gossip circles, or image-driven ministries.
Healthy:

• Authentic, supportive sisterhood.
  Unhealthy:
• Competitive, exclusionary, superficial.

WONDERING: What is GREAT?

• Servant leadership.
• Collaboration across genders.
• Honoring diverse voices.
• Safe spaces for growth and vulnerability.
• People empowered in their gifts.

* What is Privileged, Biased, Clique, Cult, or Clan-Like?

* Materialism vs. Normal Family Feel

* CLOSING THOUGHT:

When assessing any group (church, ministry, family, friendship):

Does it empower all people to thrive?
Does it reflect Jesus’ servant heart?***

** TD’s SNAKES: “She treads upon this dark  undermining, toying, dominating unyielding leader spirits” and advises:

HER MANTLED  ADVICE: The best to do is note JESUS in his first Church MINISTRY : How he ACTED and REACTED with all Bible women mentioned. Then NO LP will rear is non servant leader cultish control biased Evil Eye Jezebel Hunting tribal head. (The LP has a ministry double standard. “Boys will be boys but GIRLS you  wear the Scarlet Letter )*Again like USA Puritan First Colonies (The WELP writer Nathanial Hawthorne,THE SCARLET LETTER,witch trials)

? Are voices equally valued, regardless of gender or background?
?  Is there freedom, peace, and mutual respect?

Where the Holy Spirit reigns, there’s love, joy, peace, patience, kindness… (Galatians 5:22-23).
Where human systems rule, there’s often control, fear, favoritism, and silence

NEXT PART 14 ADAM AND EVE ..HISTORY OF THE PATRIARCHY IN THE BIBLE

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